Thoughts

Enough doubting your capabilities, now doubt your weaknesses.

अर्जुन का निशाना मछली की आँख था, द्रौपदी की वरमाला नहीं. 

Is that your experience or is that your conditioning?

In previous generations, you were real instinctively and you had to put in effort to be fake. Today, you are incentivized to be fake, and have to consciously put in effort to stay real. 

Passion ensures visibility.

Desire to belong, often overpowers desire to improve - so watch out.

Animals want to satisfy needs of their bodies, humans want to satisfy needs of their consciousness. 

Attract, don't pull.

When we feel unfulfilled, we do more of what makes us feel unfulfilled.

Relaxation should not come easy.

Suffering transformed to a purpose is an unstoppable force.

Absence of evidence is not evidence of absence.

If you don't know what you want, you'll end up with lot of things which you don't want.

"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results."

Whenever in doubt, choose to show up. 

Whenever in doubt, choose not to eat.

Don't let them destroy your spirituality with baby talk. Stay the course.

“When a measure becomes a target, it ceases to be a good measure.”

Boundaries aren’t walls to keep people out, they are tools to let the right energy in.

If you're not on the table, you're on the menu

Grass doesn't try to grow, it just grows. Fish don't try to swim, they just swim. Flowers don't try to bloom, they bloom. Birds don't try to fly, they fly. This is their intrinsic nature. The earth doesn't try to spin on its own axis; it is the nature of the earth to spin with dizzying speed and to hurtle through space. It is the nature of babies to be in bliss. It is the nature of the sun to shine. It is the nature of the stars to glitter and sparkle. And it is human nature to make our dreams manifest into physical form, easily and effortlessly.

Do not confuse understanding with larger vocabulary.

Softer than the flower for love, stronger than the thunder for principles.

Compare yourself with what you were yesterday and what you want to be tomorrow. Not with what someone is today. 

Whatever bad situation you are in, there is always something you could do to make it worse. Avoid it.

Regard is an external gesture, respect is an internal vibration.

Someone trying to get it right and someone adamant on being right - may look very similar. Learn to differentiate. Which one are you?

You are not rich until you have something which money cannot buy.

Are you doing it with intention or doing it for attention?

Are you a slave to your own idea of self?

No one will always tell you. 

They won't always tell you that you were the loud disturbing force the other day. They won't always tell you that something you do or say makes them uncomfortable. They won't always be able to speak out when you're getting what you want out of a relationship or friendship but they're not. You may say "Not my problem!". But social truth is that it is your job to be self-aware and perceive or anticipate the feelings of others around you. They won't tell you, but eventually they'll stop being as close to you.

Change is inevitable, growth is intentional.

When you love someone, you are not afraid of losing them. Love is fearless.

“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”

When you heal and work on yourself, it will offend people who benefitted from your broken self.

You'll come across people who keep an eye on what you do and say, but never compliment or suggest improvements. Be wary of them.

Only when you can sit with your shadow, you can start emitting light.

Jinx = premature availability of dopamine and validation which evaporates motivation and produces distraction.

In a dark time, the eye begins to see.

You didn't come this far, to only come this far.

If you feel like giving up, remember why you started.

You are disrespecting your idols if you don't aim to be better than them. 

The line between good and evil passes through our hearts.

Your triggers tell you where you are still chained, and what you need to work on to set yourself free. 

Without the fear of heights, there can be no appreciation for the beauty of high places.

Detachment  means that your state of mind doesn't influence my state of mind. I am able to remain who I am. It's only in a detached state that you can experience unconditional love and respect for a person. Unconditional love means that my love does not depend on any condition. 

Detachment = Unconditional love

Attachment = Conditional love

The elephant is the strongest animal in the jungle, not the lion. The cheetah is the fastest, not the lion. Apes and monkeys are among the smartest, again, not the lion. Yet, lion is the king- because of the mindset. 

If you treat them like a celebrity, they'll treat you like a fan.

Dominance is a zero-sum game, prestige is win win.

Your free will from yesterday is your destiny today. Your free will today is your destiny tomorrow. 

Go the extra mile, it's never crowded.

Violent delights have violent ends.

Problem with believing yourself to be a victim is that a victim needs a rescuer. No one rescues someone for free.

A calm mind, a fit body, and a house full of love - cannot be bought, they must be earned.

Money cannot buy back wasted time.

Once you get deep enough into any field of science, it stops making intuitive sense. That is because our intuition is evolved to work only for the human scale world view. 

If you're going through hell, keep going.

If you don't heal what hurt you, you'll bleed on people who didn't cut you.

Go laugh in places you have cried, change the narrative.

Attention is currency, spend wisely.

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

We repeat what we don't repair.

Satisfied customers leave, raving fans stay.

If someone likes you, you'll know. If someone doesn't like you, you'll be confused.

People cannot give you more than what they have.